Validating old sayings by the life he lived

“When your door of opportunity opens, remember it’s because someone oiled the hinges for you.”

— Old saying validated by Jim Chionsini as an “Old Italian Saying.”

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I never heard of old Italian sayings before I met Jim Chionsini. Since that day, however, there’s hardly a day passes that I don’t think about one.

A huge door of opportunity opened for me the day I met Jim at a Lion’s Club meeting in Center, Texas, a little more than 40 years ago. He was the new owner of the East Texas Light newspaper in Center and I was new in town seeking employment with my short newspaper resume. Following that meeting, I shaved my editor’s beard, donned a dress shirt, and walked through the newspaper office door not realizing the professionalism, life philosophy, and friendship waiting on the other side.

Jim Chionsini

That’s the first time I heard those words that would become second nature to me for the rest of my life. “That reminds of an old Italian saying,” he replied. “Challenge people with more than you think they can accomplish and you’ll both learn something. You learned just how much you can accomplish when challenged, and I learned a lot about your work ethic.”

Jimmy preached the gospel of success via hard work employing his old Italian sayings to punctuate the sermons. When he named me publisher at Center and moved his office across town, he left me with the thought, “Remember that old Italian saying, you lead by example when you unlock the door in the morning and lock it at night.” That lead to another thing I learned about Jimmy, that he practiced what he preached, never asking anyone to do something he would not do himself, or that he had never done.

East Texas Light Christmas party 1980. Left to right: Ad manager Richard Pierce obviously very amused at something Jim said; editor Gary Stewart; Jim Chionsini. Photo by Leon Aldridge

Some thought I was the hardest working new publisher in Center when I was seen in the office well before 7 a.m. and locking the door most days way after 6 p.m. or later. Part of that was anticipating Jimmy’s good morning call with his list of detailed questions. If luck prevailed, my answers to most were satisfactory. But there was always that one question which left me fumbling for an answer: more often than not, his very first question. Noticing that trend, I asked him after stuttering for an answer one morning, “How do you always know which question is the one that I am least prepared for?” Even on the phone, his huge smile could be “heard” as he replied, “By going to work before you do and staying later than you do…which by the way is what you pay me for.”

Perhaps his favorite old Italian saying was, “Success comes from 90-percent hard work and 10-percent luck. And if you’re not lucky, just add another ten-percent of hard work.” He attributed that one to his father who was also a successful business owner with A&A Machine Shop in La Marque, Texas. Jimmy was proud of his Italian ancestry, referring often to his family’s history of work ethic to become successful in America. That conversation went hand-in-hand with his staunch patriotism and appreciation for a country where that opportunity is still afforded anyone desiring it enough to work for it.

While his attributions of many old Italian sayings were to family and friends, it didn’t take long to figure out they were often inspirational quotes borrowed from many sources. What transformed them from catchy sayings on a mug or a poster was when Jimmy ordained one thereby elevating it to validated “Old Italian Saying” status, he lived it.

Left to right — Robert Swonke, Jim’s long-time friend and business partner; Jim Chionsini; Leon Aldridge at Jim’s “No Name Ranch” near San Angelo, Texas.

Over time, the challenge became finding appropriate sayings that were unique for his consideration as “Old Italian Saying” certifiable. I sent him my last submission on May 3 when I fired off an email with, “All things may come to those who wait, but only the things left by those who hustle.” His swift reply was, “I believe this will qualify.”

My mentor, employer, business partner, and good friend, James Armand (Jim) Chionsini passed from this life July 21, 2020. If I had a saying to submit to him for an old Italian saying expressing what he meant to me and countless others, it would be, “You don’t get respect, you earn it by giving it to others.”

It’s one he personified with his lifetime of respect, honesty, generosity, and concern for anyone who walked through his door.

—Leon Aldridge

(Photo at top of page: (left to right) Albert Thompson, Jim’s long-time friend and business partner; Charles Hutchins, A&A Machine Shop owner and former partner with Jim’s father; Jim Chionsini; Leon Aldridge at the A&A Machine Shop 60th anniversary in 2017.)

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Aldridge columns are published in these Texas newspapers: The Center Light and Champion, the Mount Pleasant Tribune,  the Rosenberg Fort Bend Herald, the Taylor Press, and the Alpine Avalanche.

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2 thoughts on “Validating old sayings by the life he lived

  1. Sorry for your loss Leon. Grateful for the times, places and people orchestrated by GOD to be blessings in our lives. Including in those blessings are the times past when we had had nothing in comparison to today and you worked hard to make the best of what you had. It developed in you common sense, character and work ethic. Your writing and memories of so many of these are appreciated. In many ways I feel “sorry” for the people of these “modern” times. Easy gets you very little and nothing gets you nothing. Most Everyone is a “star” on Facebook yet I would take the old days and a comic book over Facebook any day of the week. Tweet all you want. I was working the summer of 13 years old and bought my own school clothes. Paid cash for my first car (used) at 17 with money I saved from working my ass off. That is the life and times of the generation you and I, and your friend came from. When hard work, a hand shake and respecting America and her institutions were every day attributes. It had to be. Very little of anything was handed to us. The happiest people don’t have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything. That’s what our generation did. Your article brings back so many memories. It is a shame to see the train wreck that is called America today. While it is has always been legal to protest I never had the time to protest. I never had the time. I was to busy working so I could live.

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    1. Thank you, Tom. You are so right, we worked from an early age for anything we had instilling a work ethic that taught us to appreciate the value of what we had. Protesting was a right, but there was (and is) no value in it. Definitely different times.

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