Graceful, sophisticated script we all learned

Here is a golden Rule …. Write legibly. The average temper of the human race would be perceptibly sweetened, if everybody obeyed this Rule!
— Lewis Carroll, writer most noted for “Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland.”

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September 1954. First day of first grade. Crockett, Texas.

Scanning new surroundings from my desk in the old brick school building’s basement, my six-year-old brain registers everything it can comprehend.

Small horizontal windows near the ceiling, open for ventilation, allowing sunlight, sounds, and the smell of burning leaves. Inside, like classrooms all across America, the ubiquitous unfinished portrait of George Washington hangs above the blackboard, flanked by the American flag on one side and a framed copy of the Pledge of Allegiance on the other.

Stretched across the top of the blackboard was one of the basic foundations of education. The universal green chart illustrating the ABCs in block letters in elegant, flowing examples of cursive penmanship.

Cursive: that graceful, sophisticated script we all learned to create words for handwritten homework, secret notes exchanged in class, and cherished letters to friends and family.

Who could have guessed that September day, way back when, that cursive handwriting would someday become an overlooked and dismissed skill? Like an empty beverage can, thoughtlessly pitched from a speeding car window toward a “Don’t Mess With Texas” anti-littering sign.

“Holy John Hancock,” I sometimes want to cry in disbelief. How in the name of common sense could we be abandoning the highest esteem for penmanship? Skillfully crafted communication representing education, character, and refinement. It was, after all, one of the three Rs of learning: Reading, ‘Riting, and “Rithmetic.

Some blame the educational system’s Common Core requirements, forcing cursive writing out years ago. Others blame the emphasis on typing skills (excuuuuussse me — “keyboarding skills”), paving the way for educators to quietly take cursive instruction and toss it to the curb.

Trying to heal the painful void of loss over that lapse in judgment, I decided to immerse myself in research. Surprisingly, what I discovered were recent findings suggesting that cursive, once seen as purely decorative, in its absence is now being scientifically linked to intelligence.

Reports released that state, “cursive handwriting can reveal a lot about an individual’s personality. People who write in cursive tend to be creative, artistic, and have a strong sense of imagination. They are also often seen as being more emotional, sensitive, and in touch with their feelings.”

Also found were warnings of current generations losing a link to their past in historical documents. Literally. The Declaration of Independence, the Bill of Rights, and millions of letters like those my father wrote home to my mother from Europe in World War II, a plethora of historical documents, all handwritten in cursive.

“Reaching a point where those who cannot read or write cursive would lose direct access to these documents,” one researcher wrote. “Locking generations out of their own history.”

If there were any doubts before, research also revealed employment websites already advertising for qualified individuals to “read and interpret cursive written documents” … including the Library of Congress.

My first fountain pen was a link to cursive writing. I’m talking about “stick your pen in the ink bottle and pull the lever to fill the instrument” fountain pens. “Stain your shirt pocket when it leaked” fountain pens.

Real ink pen writing was not only fun, but it was also fulfilling. More than communication; it was art. Look alike digital documents vanish into cyberspace. But ink handwritten on paper in stylish script remains with the uniqueness of each individual writer.

Signing my name with my favorite ballpoint on any day is a feeling of creative expression. I have signatures for varied occasions and moods. And my ballpoint is always blue ink — never, ever black. I want my signature to rise above a printed page.

So, I’m happy to report that cursive writing’s future holds hope after all. Some 25 of the 40 states that initially adopted Common Core now require some form of cursive instruction. The reasoning? That neuroscience research indicates “writing in cursive activates brain pathways supporting learning and language development.”

October 2025. Center, Texas.

Sitting in front of my computer ready to craft another column, I grab a yellow tablet. Then a cheap ballpoint pen — a blue one. My blood pressure goes down and stress levels diminish with a sigh as I commit thoughts to paper.

In cursive.

—Leon Aldridge

About the photo: The beginning of a letter my father wrote to my mother during the time he was serving in the U.S. Army 276th Combat Engineers stationed in Belgium.

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Aldridge columns are featured in these publications: The Center Light and Champion, The Mount Pleasant Tribune, the Rosenberg Fort Bend Herald, the Taylor Press, the Alpine Avalanche,  the Fort Stockton Pioneer, the Elgin Courier, The Monitor in Naples, and Motor Sports Magazine.

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My hometown

“Home is not a place … it’s a feeling.”
—Uncredited bit of wisdom I picked up years ago.

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“So, where’s home,” asked the man whose hand I was still shaking. A mutual friend had just introduced us as we all met for lunch at a local restaurant.

“East Texas,” I replied with a smile. “I live in Center, but I grew up in Mount Pleasant. I claim them both as my hometown.”

Even as I said it for the umpteenth time, that statement still sounded somewhat unusual. Odd that I’ve had a Center mailing address through a dozen presidential terms, and while my home in Mount Pleasant years ago was a fourth of that, I still call it my hometown. And what about the various Texas communities where we lived before settling in Mount Pleasant to stay when I was eleven?

Someday, I’ll examine the paper trail in a cardboard box full of evidence of my parents’ pilgrimage from the time before my own memories began. A collection of letters, receipts, car registrations, repair bills, church bulletins, report cards, and black-and-white school pictures.

It wasn’t until after my mother’s death that I realized she had amassed this veritable family history in her cedar chest. I guess I owe her thanks, or maybe the blame, for my own tendency to hang on to similar seemingly worthless pieces of paper.

My family’s last move to Mount Pleasant was just in time for me to finish fifth grade at South Ward Elementary. But evidence in Mom’s hoarded documents hints at previous addresses in Ballinger, Muleshoe, and Midland. Plus, Pampa up in the Panhandle.

My first and oldest cognitive connections from around the age of three or four are of Pampa. I also remember Crockett where we lived next and where I entered first grade. A move to Seymour, Texas, followed where I completed third and fourth grade, and all of fifth grade except those last few weeks spent in Mr. Mattingly’s home room in Mount Pleasant.

So, I contemplated, what really qualifies one place over another as “my hometown?”

To me, it’s where our heart was first grounded. Places we associate with the “firsts” in life, such as our first friends. Friends remembered from fifth grade in Seymour are tall, skinny Joe, with whom I played basketball at recess. Mike, a neighbor I rode bicycles with to the park. And Carolyn, the first girl I exchanged valentines with in fifth grade.

Many firsts became memories in Mount Pleasant. Some with those end-of-the-year fifth graders from South Ward when we graduated from high school together seven years later. And some of those graduates who became college roommates and long-time friends beyond high school.

First dates, first jobs, my first car, and house—those memories all began in Mount Pleasant.

“Home is sometimes a place you grow up wanting to leave and grow old wanting to return to,” I added to the lunch conversation. I thought about Mount Pleasant, and how after college, I tried to plant roots there twice. But that path just wasn’t in the cards.

I took the path more traveled, rooting in Center many years ago. Enough years to see my children begin school and make their first memories. Enough years to amass many friends and loved ones, and to lose some of both. Enough years to have tasted happiness and to endure heartache.

And even enough years to see good eating establishments come and go. Which is where this missive started. Over lunch.

“So, while my home has been in Center for most of my life, I also consider Mount Pleasant my hometown,” I concluded, thinking about some of my “trips home.”

I return occasionally. Navigating new highways and bypasses makes driving more stressful than it was when I learned to drive there. And, though the old streets are familiar, the places and the faces have constantly changed over time. while the memories of “firsts” linger there like it was yesterday.

“I never thought about having two hometowns,” my new acquaintance offered as we worked on chips, salsa, and sweet tea.

“Yeah,” I drawled. “I think home is anywhere we leave a piece our heart.

“Because hometown is not really a place … it’s a feeling in the heart.”

—Leon Aldridge

(Photo info: My youngest sister, Sylvia, on the front porch at 206 Redbud Lane in Mount Pleasant, Texas, “home and hometown” to me and my sisters Leslie and Sylvia. There is no date on the photo, but I’m guessing about 1962 or ’63. I have no clue what she was modeling on her head. It may or may not have had anything to do with what appears to be Easter baskets behind her. The house that was our home is still there today, but it’s been extensively remodeled and doesn’t look the same as I remember it. Sylvia moved to her eternal hometown December 14, 2023. )

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Aldridge columns are featured in these publications: The Center Light and Champion, The Mount Pleasant Tribune, the Rosenberg Fort Bend Herald, the Taylor Press, the Alpine Avalanche,  the Fort Stockton Pioneer, the Elgin Courier, The Monitor in Naples, and Motor Sports Magazine.

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Time flies and I’m still looking

“I’m having a hard time remembering names,” my friend’s frustration said. “I can’t remember them like I used to!”

“I can relate,” I offered. “Bad news is, it’s the massive amount of data build up in our brains as the years fly by. The searches take longer. The good news is it will come to you. It does for me. In an hour or two. Or a day … or so. Sometimes.”

“Another frustration,” I continued, “is trying to remember where I put things. Like last week searching for a photo of an airplane I owned. I know I have it … somewhere. How do we accumulate so much ‘stuff’ in one lifetime.”

My searching did, however, turn up photos of other airplanes. And a name lost to memory. Reverend Isaac Newton Burchinal, Jr. and his WWII airplanes.

“Reverend who,” my friend inquired? 

“Better known as ‘Junior’ Burchinal. His Flying Tiger Air Museum was a collection of WWII airplanes at a small Northeast Texas crop dusting strip west of Paris. Not exactly museum pristine examples, but airworthy none-the-less.

A story of Flying Tiger’s P-51 Mustang often repeated recounted a demonstration ride during which Burchinal pulled the old fighter plane up and over in a loop for the thrill seeking passenger. As the aircraft reached to top of the maneuver fully inverted, the passenger reported seeing not only a spectacular view of the earth from an upside down perspective, but also an assortment of nuts, bolts, and small parts falling from their hiding place in the bottom of the airplane raining down through the cockpit. This is the same plane that at the time had stenciled on the nose, the nickname “In God We Trust.”

The ‘refound’ photos reminded me of the day Burchinal flew his B-17 bomber to the old Mount Pleasant airport in the mid 1970s.

While learning to fly, I visited the colorful aviator’s field where he flew them often for local shows, and as a stunt pilot for Universal Studios in movies like “The Great Waldo Pepper” and “Midway,” plus the television series, “Baa, Baa, Black Sheep.” 

Not only were the planes fascinating, but I was in awe that anyone could fly the big warbirds off the small asphalt strip that ran uphill on one end with a fence and traveled highway on the other.

Burchinal’s Mount Pleasant visit was at an air show our fledgling Mount Pleasant flying club, the Northeast Texas Aviation Association, staged. I called him to inquire whether we might afford him and one his planes for our show. A deal was sealed; he was bringing his B-25 Mitchell bomber. That was until the afternoon before he called.

“Leon, this is Junior Burchinal up here in Paris,” he said. “I’ve got some bad news. We’re having problems with the B-25. It won’t make the trip tomorrow.”

My heart began rapidly losing altitude. Visions of, “what now,” spiraled out of control. “But, if it’s all right with you,” he added, “we’ll bring the B-17 for the same money.”

“All right,” I stammered, my spirits pulling out of the dive. “Yes sir, that is good news.” He continued to apologize, almost as many times as I thanked him. 

Early the next morning, as club members scurried about working on last minute preparation, I heard the huge four-engine B-17 coming over downtown Mount Pleasant. Mesmerized by the sight and sounds, I watched it make a long straight-in approach to the airport. Just as wheels touched pavement, a WW II “Corsair” fighter made a hi-speed pass over the airport before circling back to land.

Both planes taxied to the ramp. Burchinal climbed out of the single seat fighter, followed by a young lady who appeared literally to unfold and crawl out of a small seat added behind the pilot. He introduced the bomber crew, then the young lady as his daughter, before apologizing again for not bringing the B-25. “But I brought the Corsair to make up for it.”

No one could have dreamed as time was flying by, that the B-25 that couldn’t make the show would later land at the Vintage Flying Museum at Meacham Field in Fort Worth for a few years there. Or that it would decades later find a home at Mid-America flight museum in Mount Pleasant. And I would have never imagined that I saw it in Fort Worth about 20 years ago where I grabbed a fun photo of me in the pilot’s seat, never dreaming I would duplicate that photo just a few years ago at Mid-America Flight Museum.

The good news last week was finding the photo of Burchinal’s airplanes and reminiscing.

The bad news this week is that time still flies, and I’m still looking for that photo of my old airplane. It’s around here somewhere. I’ll find it in a day or two.

Maybe.

—Leon Aldridge

(Photo: Original Flying Tigers pubicicity black-and-white photo from the 1970’s of I.N. Birchinal Jr.’s B-17 Flying Fortress WWII bomber “Balls of Fire” flying above the Red River north of Pairs, Texas. )

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Aldridge columns are featured in these publications: The Center Light and Champion, The Mount Pleasant Tribune, the Rosenberg Fort Bend Herald, the Taylor Press, the Alpine Avalanche,  the Fort Stockton Pioneer, the Elgin Courier, The Monitor in Naples, and Motor Sports Magazine.

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It all boils down to one thing

“I wish there was a way to know you were in the good old days before you actually left them.”
— Edward Parker Helms, actor, comedian, writer, and producer.

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“I miss the good ol’ days,” someone said to kick off the coffee klatch last week.

“Yeah? What do you miss the most,” another queried?

Answers from those who had gathered to solve the world’s problems over strong, hot coffee were many. “Drivers who actually understand the concept of turn signals and stop signs.“ “How about people who let you finish a sentence without interrupting?” “Manners. Where did the good old day’s of being a decent person go?” “Courtesy — I remember my mother telling me that if you can’t say something nice about someone, just smile and don’t say anything at all.” “I miss how people could talk about their differences without calling each other names.”

“Yeah,” one of the problem solving coffee sippers agreed, ‘”My grandaddy said when slinging slurs and vulgar names start, be kind and understand that it’s folks who can’t help it. They just never learned an educated vocabulary to have a civil discussion with.”

Thoughts and opinions bounced around before silence fell on my side of the table. Just as I had a story to share.

Imagine that.

“It all boils down to one thing,” I began my two cents and change. “Respect. Years ago, as a young editor, I wrote what I believed was a balanced editorial. Carefully presenting both sides of a controversial local issue before supporting my position with facts. After committing my points to posterity, I sent the piece to press for the next edition.”

In those days, I arrived at the office by 6 a.m. at the latest to get a head start in the morning’s quietness before unlocking the door right before 8. The next morning, a visitor walked up as I was turning the key in the lock. A local attorney, a well-known and respected community leader. He was twice my age, tall and broad-shouldered, and his deep wisdom was matched by his deeper voice.

In his hand was a rolled-up copy of that day’s edition. The one bearing my carefully crafted editorial opinion.

“You got a minute for me,” he asked politely.

I returned his civility with a smile and, “Yes sir — always. Come in. The coffee is on.”

We sat down in my office, and he began, “I’ve read your editorial in today’s paper, and I disagree with your opinion. I think your argument is flawed.”

“OK,” I replied politely. “I did my research, and feel confident in having published it. But that said, with your experience and wisdom, I am eager to hear your viewpoints.”

I listened to him with respect and without interrupting. Respect for my elders, respect for authority, and courtesy in hearing out the opinions of others were virtues my parents instilled in me at an early age. My father summed it up by reminding me that a wise man learns more by listening than he does by talking.

When my morning visitor concluded, I expressed my gratitude to him for taking the time to share his thoughts and views with me. I also told him that I fully respected his opinions and would research them further, but for the moment, I still felt strongly that I was on the right track with mine.

He was quiet for a moment. I likewise sat silently. I had no idea what he might say next. That’s when he smiled and said, “Well, I thank you for hearing me out. I wish I could have persuaded you otherwise about your views, but I respect your right to your opinions, and I support your right to express them. Even if we can’t agree.”

Then he said something that I have come to understand more fully as the years have passed. “If we ever fail to respect each other’s freedom to express an opinion, I fear, we will have lost our country.”

With a hearty handshake and a smile, he rolled up the newspaper, put it under his arm and said, “Feel free to stop my office anytime for coffee.” Then he walked out the door.

“I recall that conversation often,” I started to wrap up my story. “Usually when I consider lifelong friends who might hold views on topics ranging from ‘politics to pole cats,’ as my grandmother used to say, very different from mine. And I value them knowing that our mutual respect exemplifies our belief that true friendship outweighs our differences in opinion. That hate and differences of opinion do not have to travel the same path.

I ended last week’s coffee shop commentary saying, “I had good parenting examples. My dad was a lifelong Democrat. My mother was an unrelenting Republican. Each voted their convictions, effectively canceling the other’s vote in every election. Yet, they were happily married for 63 years. Through love, they respected each other’s opinions, even when they disagreed.

“It worked then,” I said with a shoulder shrug. “And I believe it would work today. If more people just realized that with love and respect, we can salvage some of those good old days.

“Before they are completely gone.”

—Leon Aldridge

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Aldridge columns are featured in these publications: The Center Light and Champion, The Mount Pleasant Tribune, the Rosenberg Fort Bend Herald, the Taylor Press, the Alpine Avalanche,  the Fort Stockton Pioneer, the Elgin Courier, The Monitor in Naples, and Motor Sports Magazine.

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Write so that memories live on

“Tell me facts, and I’ll learn. Tell me truth, and I’ll believe you. But tell me a story and it will live in my heart forever”
— Native American Proverb”

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We became gas pump neighbors one afternoon a few days ago.

You know, people we meet while watching numbers on the gas pump climb higher than an August afternoon heat index. Exchanging smiles with strangers at the pump while we’re trying to remember where we needed to be ten minutes ago … before remembering that we forgot to gas up last night.

That’s what we do because we were raised to be kind; to be friendly. “Don’t be stuck up,” Mom instructed. Friendliness mission accomplished, I returned to watching pump numbers escalate.

That’s when my new gas pump neighbor engaged me. “I enjoy your stories in the paper.” I did the next thing we were raised to do. Be polite … and don’t let on like you don’t know who they are. “Hey,” I said, buying time. “How’s it going. And thank you, I appreciate you reading my weekly ramblings.”

You have more stories than a book has pages,” he laughed. “I love ‘em. Are those all of those stories real?”

“Sure,” I scoffed. “You can’t make up stuff like that. “Mostly memories,” I added. “Things that happened growing up. Something I remember from a few years ago; a few days ago.”

“Well, I enjoy reading them,” he smiled. “Keep it up.”  

“Thank you,” I said again. “We all share many of the same basic memories. Only the people and the places change. All stories just waiting to be told. I’ll bet you have a story.”

He laughed, and we parted ways going in different directions. The exchange was another reminder of the importance of memories and the value of capturing them. Documenting them. Sharing them as often as possible. Something that didn’t dawn on me until a long time after I had been getting paid to write them.

I probably owe the credit for that to one of my journalism students at Stephen F. Austin State University, a generation of young writers ago.

Charged with imparting writing skills, tools and techniques to aspiring journalists, I enjoyed challenging young minds to find and write their first story. “Everybody has a story,” I offered one day to end a lecture period. “They may not know they do, but that is your first challenge. Strike up a conversation and just listen.”

“That’s easy for you to do,” countered one student. “You have age and experience, and you know a lot of people. It’s not that easy for someone our age.”

“Listening and understanding have no age requirements,” I replied. “Ask questions about what they remember from growing up. About their proudest moments. What they hope to achieve in the years to come. Talk about dreams. Then, be quiet and listen with appreciation. You’ll hear more stories than you can write.”

Long time newspaper mentor and friend Jim Chionsini executed the storytelling technique to a fine art. For instance, when asked for suggestions on the best way to tackle a tough situation at work, he often replied with a story rather than an explanation. “Well, let me tell you how Les Daughtry down at the Galveston News handled issues like that.”

It was also Jim who distinguished between memories that made good stories for publication from the few that are often better left unpublished. “Just because something we did was a bad idea doesn’t mean it isn’t a good memory,” he would laugh. “Just keep those kind among friends.”

Our stories, whether published or simply shared with friends and family, need to be told. And that’s where the value of memories takes root. We all should be writing. Preserving snapshots of our past, moments in our minds, tidbits of history that go untold and lost to time unless we write about them.

That, in my estimation, is the most significant challenge that has no limitations in terms of experience or age for writers. Everyone has a story. Most of us have many. I write as many as I can for weekly columns. And I write some of those just for my personal files, too. But I write so that memories will live on. For family and friends after I’m no longer able to write them.

We all have stories. Even my new gas pump neighbor had one. I’ll be writing his, too.

—Leon Aldridge

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Aldridge columns are featured in these publications: The Center Light and Champion, The Mount Pleasant Tribune, the Rosenberg Fort Bend Herald, the Taylor Press, the Alpine Avalanche,  the Fort Stockton Pioneer, the Elgin Courier, The Monitor in Naples, and Motor Sports Magazine.

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I still remember both

You’ll never relive the moment you got your first car. That’s it, that’s the highest peak… it has a lot of meaning to me” —George Lucas, American filmmaker best known for Star Wars and Indiana Jones.

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Cooler evenings a couple of days last week were a nice break from summer’s sweltering heat. But don’t be fooled. Mother Nature plays tricks in East Texas, teasing that there will actually be a real fall.

Cool breezes were just enough, however, to entice me into the garage where my ’50s vintage first-love cars spent the hot summer. The garage where I connect to motoring memories dating back some 60-plus years ago when I bought my first car.

Memories of first cars and first dates have been an American phenomenon for generations. Typically beginning with captivating garage aromas—gasoline, motor oil, chrome polish, and unique interior fabric scents lingering longer than the finest French perfume. Or at least until the fragrance worn by your first date in your first car.

Memories of my first car are somewhat more vivid than those of my first date. But that’s no reflection on the attractive young lady who first caught my eye at Mount Pleasant High School. After all, she was the first to take my mind off cars long enough for me to make a stammering attempt to ask her out for a date.

Still, I must admit that my first date memory moments pale ever so slightly in comparison to the time I laid eyes on the first automobile I envisioned as mine. That dark blue 1951 Chevrolet Styleline DeLuxe. Sitting at Rex Kidwell’s Fina Station on South Jefferson Street in Mount Pleasant, Texas.

Everybody knew Rex. The friendly service station proprietor with autographed black-and-white photos of country music stars on the walls. Most of them signed, “To Rex …”

Where customers were always greeted with a smile, gas was pumped while they sat in the car, the oil checked, the windshield washed, and the floor mats hand swept with a whisk broom, one just like every service station attendant used to keep in his back pocket.

And all that for about 30¢ a gallon.

That service was standard for everyone. Not just customers filling up with ethyl gas and getting change from a five. The “Gim’me a dollar’s worth of regular ‘til payday, please,” drivers received the same treatment.

I was no stranger to driving when the car at Rex’s turned my head. My father and grandfather had groomed me in driving skills since I was 12 years old. I made it legal at 14 by taking driver’s ed, the minimum age for becoming a licensed driver in Texas in 1963.

Stopping at Rex’s station on the way home to gas up Dad’s car that night, I saw the old Chevy. It was love at first sight, gleaming in the spotlight beside the building.

Rex was known for acquiring pristine used cars meeting his standards of ‘nice,’ and parking them at his station with a ‘for sale’ sign.

With some meager money pocketed from my after-school job at Beall’s department store and an interest-free loan from my grandmother repaid at five dollars a week, I was back the next day with the $250 asking price in hand.

If I live to be 100, I will never relive that moment of driving home in my first car during my sophomore year at MPHS.

As time and money permitted, personal touches were added. A split manifold with dual exhaust and glass-pack mufflers from Redfearn’s Automotive. Baby moon hubcaps from the J.C. Whitney catalog.

My first car got me to school, to work, to Saturday night drag races, and to church on Sundays. It was a participant in many nights of cruising fun between the Dairy Queen and “Bobby Joe’s,” aka the Dairy Mart, located at opposite ends of town.

Last but not least, it was a trustworthy mode of transportation for a Saturday night at the Martin Theater to see “Goldfinger,” the third film in the James Bond series. With my first date.

Visiting in Mount Pleasant a few years ago, I happened to see her coming out of a store where I was going in. We spoke briefly, and I wondered if she remembered that she was my first date all those years ago. Or if she remembered my first car.

I still remember both.

—Leon Aldridge

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Aldridge columns are featured in these publications: The Center Light and Champion, The Mount Pleasant Tribune, the Rosenberg Fort Bend Herald, the Taylor Press, the Alpine Avalanche,  the Fort Stockton Pioneer, the Elgin Courier, The Monitor in Naples, and Motor Sports Magazine.

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The picture looks great in her house

“City people make most of the fuss about the charms of country life.”  
— Mason Cooley, American writer and educator 1927-2002

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“Which one do you like?”

The request for consultation from a friend trying to decide between two pieces of artwork was noted. One, a small country farmhouse with a red barn. The second, a white frame country church building.

“I like them both — either will complement the art in your house,” I offered, trying to be helpful but not persuasive. “Visualize each one in your house for a moment; the better choice will come to you.”

Art, like beauty, is the eyes of the beholder. My art collection, I like to call “an eclectic extravaganza.” Some pieces by recognized artists. Some by obscure unknowns. A few, my own personal work from another lifetime spent earning a degree in art.

Likewise, appreciation for where we choose to live is defined by personal tastes and experience. “I like the country farmhouse picture,” my friend smiled. “I wonder sometimes what it would be like to live on a real farm.”

Country life, from a city perspective, often seems charming. Farming, however, is dedication and hard work. I learned this as a city kid in the early 1950s, spending time at my country friend’s house.

His family lived on a muddy county road in deep East Texas near Crockett. Where a dirt driveway circled a huge oak tree. A gate on the left led to the simple four-room farmhouse, and another on the right connected to a cow pasture and hay meadow. Beyond the tree was a shed sheltering a well-worn Ford 8N tractor and an equally used GMC one-ton flat-bed truck, both of late 1940s vintage.

The truck was the only vehicle the tenant farming family owned, serving double duty as a work vehicle and the only means of transportation to town for Saturday provisions or to church on Sunday.

The old frame house sat up off the ground with nothing to keep a cold North wind from blowing under it. Except a couple of hound dogs calling under the house their home that delighted in barking at anything that moved … and some things that didn’t.

A well-worn path from the back door forked about halfway across the yard. One way led to the smokehouse where pork was cured. The other, more heavily traveled trail passed the firewood stack on the way to the outhouse. Also known as the privy. The “John.” Predecessors to indoor porcelain bathrooms with running water.

In fact, the only indoor plumbing was a hand-operated well pump at the kitchen sink. Electricity was limited to four bare bulb lights, one hanging from the ceiling in each room. Heat was supplied by a wood-burning stove in the kitchen and a small fireplace in the living room.  

A telephone was still on the “maybe someday” list. A television was just a dream.

Air conditioning? A rare commodity anywhere in the early 1950s. The few businesses that had it boasted of the luxury, enticing customers with “refrigerated air” signs in their windows. However, it was enjoyed in very few homes then, especially rural farmhouses.

My initial experiences of country life, all those years ago, included many memorable firsts. Things like riding on a horse. On a tractor. And on the back of a flatbed farm truck.

It was also the only time I took a Saturday night bath in a number three washtub in the middle of the kitchen floor. And my first time sitting in a hot outhouse on a summer afternoon listening to dirt dabbers buzzing.

It was also where I saw family love and friendship. Dedication and hard work. Where I enjoyed home-cooked meals in the most literal sense of the word. Vegetables from the garden, milk from the cows, meat from the smokehouse. Where raising crops, cattle, and farm products was not only their livelihood, but also their means of providing food for the table.

Granted, farming and farm living have changed immensely since my so-called city boy childhood experiences eons ago. For the better, thankfully. But many good memories of those brief farm living experiences remain.

Except for outhouses. Those are probably best left to humorous stories and a sense of gratitude that they are gone.

My friend made her artwork selections last week, and we were off to dinner. I had silently picked my favorite; had I been buying one — the church picture. Because without country churches, family farms would be vastly different, yesterday and today.

By the way, the canvas of the country church looks great in her house.

—Leon Aldridge

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I was there just for the music

“It’s like I’m 16 again. I grew up listening to this music on the radio.
— Shared by the person sitting next to me at a KC and the Sunshine Band concert a couple of weeks ago.  

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That recent concert was the second time I witnessed the Florida based band perform. The first time was the early 1970s. At the fairgrounds in Longview, Texas. New on the evolving music scene, KC and the Sunshine Band was opening for Willie Nelson.

I was there just for the music, but my Momma didn’t raise an idiot. The venue packed with pocket pint carrying attendees and the aroma of burning wacky weed led us to surrender front row seats for the relative safety of enjoying the music standing near an exit.

Some fifty years and many hit songs later, the most recent venue was very different. Gray-haired grandparents wearing Velcro fastener tennis shoes abounded, shuffling to their seats while adjusting hearing aids.

I wondered if someone would awaken them when the music started.

But just two lines into “My, My, My Boogie Shoes,” at 3.0 on the Richter Scale, the room was glittering with revolving light beams bouncing from the disco ball above the stage. And these same fans I was concerned about mere moments ago were suddenly in the aisles busting moves not seen since John Travolta immortalized “Saturday Night Fever.”

It’s no secret that I love music. Or that my tastes span a wide variety of artists and styles.

Music was instrumental in my formative years. I watched Mom smile while enduring house cleaning chores listening to her high school record collection. Glenn Miller, Tommy Dorsey, Benny Goodman, Artie Shaw.

I laughed at her little brother, my Uncle Bill, who talked about music connecting emotions, and memories. Little Richard, Etta James, Hank Williams, Bob Wills. Before psychological studies ever considered the concept, Uncle Bill related personal stories about early 50s service in the Navy. Guys on ships a long way from home listening to music and sharing memories. Cars they drove, girls they dated, places where memories were made. All entwined in the music.

Realizing that same appreciation for music over the years, I concur that a song can do more than simply entertain. Just a few notes can jog memories and stir emotions rooted deep in the soul.

Therefore, it was no fluke that recent revisit to the music and the subculture of 70s disco unleashed a rush of recollections. Like the time a bunch of friends ventured from Mount Pleasant in East Texas down to Panama City Beach, Florida. On motorcycles. Spending a week at the not-so-glamorous, but affordably cheap, Barney Gray Motel at twelve bucks a night. Before Panama City Beach enjoyed a significant remake into the resort area it us today. A time when it was affectionately and otherwise referred to the “Redneck Riviera.”

But that mattered little to us in 1974. We were there for the sun and the fun, orchestrated and enjoyed to a background of ’70s music.

Just short years out of college and experiencing my first time in Florida, the trip was not only fun for me, but also educational. It’s where I learned about severe sunburn, defied death on “The Starliner,” the infamous wooden roller coaster at Miracle Strip Amusement Park, and cruised the beach road every night lined with hot cycles and cool cars.

That trip was also where I was exposed to another ’70s phenomenon, one immortalized in a well-known musical masterpiece. A Ray Stevens song entitled “The Streak.”

The bare facts are that a half dozen guys were huddled around an arcade pinball machine, challenging each other to pile up points. In the whimsical song, the singer warns his wife, “Don’t look Ethel.” But when two young women ran right past us, au naturel, boogity, boogity through the arcade, I just happened to be the only one not intently focused on the pinball competition.

Steven’s song suggests the streakers he saw were “wearing nothing but a smile.” The genuine, in the flesh arcade streakers I witnessed that night were wearing nothing but a paper bag on their head, qualifying me to testify about everything but facial expressions.

Dumbfounded, I called out to my unaware friends. “G-G-Guys,” I stuttered, “Over here; look at this!”

But they were too late. The girls flashed right by us and out a nearby door before one of the pinball players finally turned and asked, “What are you hollering about?”

“Never mind,” I said, “I could tell you, but the effect just wouldn’t be the same.”

The effect would be perfect at this point if I could say that KC and the Sunshine Band was playing on the jukebox at the arcade that revealing night I got a peek near the pinball machines.

However, the honest truth is even better. Another ’70s disco era hit was providing musical entertainment that long ago summer night down in Florida. A Johnny Nash song that charted as a Top 100 number one in 1972.

A song entitled, “I Can See Clearly Now.”

—Leon Aldridge

Photo info: Front page picture from the Mount Pleasant Daily Tribune dated July 7, 1974. Yours truly is the second face wearing a smile on the left side of the photo.

Photo cutline: “TRAVELING CHEAPLY – 19 Mount Pleasant residents decided to travel cheaply on their vacation this year. They’re traveling for the sand and sunshine on motorcycles to Panama City, Fla. The cyclists plan to have a safe trip. Tribune photo by Buddy Williams.”

An accompanying story headlined: “Family Fun: Local BIkers Leave for Florida” offers comments from some, just before the group departed moments after the photo was taken, Motorcycle travelers named in the story included “Mr. and Mrs. Floyd Spencer, Mr. and Mrs. Leon Aldridge Jr. , Mr. and Mrs. Mike Helbert, Ricky Holland, Kendall Johnson, Jimmy Clark, Kent Bryson, Mr. and Mrs. Terry Shurtleff, and the Spruill family, which includes Mr. and Mrs. Spruill and their children, Kim, Tim, and Scott, and Mrs. Spruill’s parents, Mr. and Mrs. Dan Bynum.

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Should I update my picture?

“Things that make you go ‘hmmm.’”
— Arsenio Hall, actor, comedian, and talk show host

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Interesting and surprising turns of events. Seemingly unrelated occurrences connecting in unexpected ways. Things that make you go, “hmmm!”

“You don’t know me,” said the man approaching the table where I was sitting. “But I recognize you. You look just like your picture.”

“Oh man,” I thought to myself. “Didn’t post offices stop displaying wanted posters a long time ago?”

We were both guests at a 50th wedding anniversary celebration in my hometown of Mount Pleasant a couple of weeks ago. He was family. I was longtime friends of the celebrating couple.

“My name is Gerald Hampton,” he said. “I read your column. You look just like your photo.”

“Nice to meet you,” I said, standing to shake his hand. “I know another Gerald Hampton. From Naples.”

“I’ve heard of him,” the Gerald Hampton standing in front of me said. “But I’ve never met him.”

“Really nice guy,” I replied.

“You know, it’s funny,” I said. “That you recognized me from my picture. Met a nice lady a few minutes ago who said she heard someone mention my name and wanted to tell me she reads my column. Then added, ‘But you don’t look like your picture.’”

“Gerald Hampton in Naples is a really nice guy,” I said again as we chuckled about the photo story. “I met him many years ago, working my first newspaper job as a photographer and reporter at The Monitor newspaper in Naples.

“Gerald’s day job was fireman at a plant near Texarkana,” I said, sorting through old memories. “It might have been the Lone Star Army Ammunition Plant. That one shut down some years ago.

“Gerald also had a sideline business as the local printer. He had a small shop just off Main Street. Back when almost every small town had someone that printed things like letterheads, business cards, and invitations.

“He was a longtime good friend of Monitor publisher Morris Craig,” I continued, “and was in the newspaper office on a regular basis. I want to think he and Craig may have also worked together at The Monitor. When it was owned by Lee Narramore.

“I do know he was also a co-founder of The Printing Factory in Naples,” I said as my memories trailed off for a moment.

“I never met him,” the Titus County Hampton said. “But I’ve heard good things about him. And I do have a story about him. My wife asked me about a bill from Sears one evening some years ago. I told her I hadn’t bought anything from Sears recently, and she said, ‘Well, we got a bill from them for two bicycles.’”

Hampton said when he checked with Sears, he learned it was the Naples Gerald Hampton who made the purchase that was mistakenly billed to their account.

Following that visit a couple of weeks ago, other memories about Gerald Hampton in Naples came to mind. Things like walks down Naples’ Main Street. Going to the post office to get the mail… sometimes glancing at the wanted posters. Or to Rodney Cook’s Piggly Wiggly for a snack. Stopping at Gerald’s print shop, for business sometimes, but more often just to visit. Because I knew what would greet me when I opened the door. The rhythmic clacking of the small job presses, a friendly greeting from Gerald, and a good story.

The last time I saw Gerald, 20 years or more ago, he talked about how he and his wife were enjoying retirement, managing camp sites and entertaining campers with their bluegrass music performances.

My short visit with Titus County Gerald Hampton recently taught me that he was a lifelong educator. It didn’t take long to also learn about his congenial nature and his ease in getting to know people. Very much like the personality of the Morris County Gerald Hampton.

Shortly after that visit, however, I learned that the Gerald Hampton I called a friend from Naples had passed away. Mere days before I met the Mount Pleasant Gerald Hampton. I wondered how two Gerald Hamptons with similar personalities lived less than 20 miles apart and never met.

I also wondered about two people seeing the same picture and disagreeing on whether it resembled the person they to whom they were talking. I wondered why wanted posters are no longer displayed in the local post office. And now I’m wondering … should I update my picture?

You know. Just things that make you go, “Hmmm!”

—Leon Aldridge

(Photo Credit: Mom’s photo album. Yours truly about age 3 or 4 in Pampa, Texas. Mom made notes on some photos, but not all of them. )

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Aldridge columns are featured in these publications: The Center Light and Champion, The Mount Pleasant Tribune, the Rosenberg Fort Bend Herald, the Taylor Press, the Alpine Avalanche,  the Fort Stockton Pioneer, the Elgin Courier, The Monitor in Naples, and Motor Sports Magazine.

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The morning Sister Claudie Mae claimed her pew

“I have prepared a place for you … just not this pew.”
— The understood 11th Commandment

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“Saw in the newspaper where one of those big mega churches is selling reserved seats for the Sunday sermon.”

“That’s one way to stimulate conversation at the morning coffee shop gathering,” I thought.

Someone near the coffee pot was heard to say, “It’s been done before, long time ago. But in this day and age? In the South?”

“The way I read it, that didn’t end well in the Bible,” said one of the local preachers, an occasional coffee shop drop-in. “Jesus drove sellers, merchants, and money changers from the temple.”

“I don’t know,” drawled another. “Shouldn’t have to pay anything to attend worship service. Offerings when the plate is passed, or a fundraiser — now that’s different. Seems to me,” he went on. “You might be perceived as favoring the rich to get the better seats.”

Silence slipped by for about half a minute before someone chuckled, “Well, it might solve one problem at our house. It’s a challenge to get the kids ready on time. We always get there about the second verse of the first hymn. Looking for a good seat.

“Now, I’m not saying we’re habitually late,” he recanted, “but the smokers on the front porch start snuffing out cigarettes and heading for the door when we pull in the parking lot.”

“Here’s an idea,” mused the preacher. “If we made the front seats free and the back seats the most expensive seats in the house, I could see this working.”

I was trying to determine if he was joking or serious when someone asked, “So, what do you think, newspaper man.”

Taking a long draw on my coffee to think, I carefully submitted the biggest challenge. As I saw it.

“It reminds me of a small East Texas congregation where I worshiped a few years ago,” I ventured into the spirited discussion. “One Sunday morning, some visitors came in, introduced themselves, and took a vacant seat. Little did they know they had parked in a pew known to be Sister Claudie Mae’s undisputed and long-claimed spot. The end of the fifth row, left side.”

Sister Claudie Mae was the sweetest, kindest little lady you could ever hope to meet. She had outlived two husbands and been present for every service longer than anyone alive could remember. Her “on time” arrival coincided precisely with the minister stepping to the pulpit for welcoming remarks, announcements, and to update the prayer list.

Sure enough, on that morning, Sister Claudie Mae walked in right on schedule. The preacher paused motionless in the pulpit, watching her walk slowly to the end of the fifth row on the left side. All eyes were on Sister Claudie Mae when she stopped, smiled and said sweetly to the visiting couple, “Good morning. I do believe you are visitors. Welcome, we are so glad to have you. And what is your name?”

“Thank you,” the man said warmly. “We’re the Wilsons.”

“We are thrilled that you are visiting with us,” Sister Claudie Mae responded. “And we genuinely hope you will come back. However, Mr. Wilson, you and your lovely wife are sitting in my pew, and if you will be so kind as to find another one, we can start our service.”

The startled couple scurried to the closest empty pew, allowing the good sister to sit in “her seat,” thereby ending any further discussion on the 11th Commandment of “thou shalt not sit in someone else’s pew.”

With that story, I suggested to anyone in the coffee club thinking paid seating at church was a good idea might want to first determine who among them would break the news to the many Sister Claudie Mae’s in congregations everywhere.

“Who is going to tell these lovely ladies that they will have to pay every Sunday to sit in the seat they have called theirs since before many of you spent Sunday mornings in the nursery,” I asked.

The conversation quickly moved to other stimulating topics like courthouse politics, the weather, and the rumor that yhe vacant lot near being cleared near Walmart is going to be a Burger King.

But I pondered more intriguing matters. Recalling the morning when Sister Claudie Mae claimed her pew. Was the song leader’s opening hymn selection merely coincidence or quick thinking when he invited the congregation to join in the singing of “I Shall Not Be Moved.”

—Leon Aldridge

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Aldridge columns are featured in these publications: The Center Light and Champion, The Mount Pleasant Tribune, the Rosenberg Fort Bend Herald, the Taylor Press, the Alpine Avalanche,  the Fort Stockton Pioneer, the Elgin Courier, The Monitor in Naples, and Motor Sports Magazine.

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